by Krystle Hernandez

Created on: April 19, 2009

While some parents have no problem discussing sex with their children from an early age, others find talking about "the birds and the bees" with their kids as uncomfortable and awkward. No matter how much parents want to deny the fact that their children are "growing up" and becoming sexually active, the reality is that today's youth is becoming involved in sexual activity at a much earlier age. So, if you have a daughter, and are concerned about her health, safety, and happiness, be sure that you consider the following tips for talking to your teen girl about sex.

Start Early

Parents should do whatever it takes to become comfortable discussing sex with their children from an early age. While parents should certainly be aware that their discussions offer age-appropriate information, as children grow into teens and sex becomes a more predominant issue, this early foundation will allow you to have more candid discussions about your daughter's sexual activity.

Furthermore, parents should be a child's main source of information about sex, not movies, television, or peers. If you want your child to get accurate information about sex, then you should be sure that you provide it for them, rather than relying on external and alternative means of sex education.

Also, from day one, you should work hard to establish a relationship with your children based on openness and honesty. If your child feels a solid bond between you and feels as though she will be loved unconditionally (and not judged) regardless of her actions, then she is far more likely to come to your for advice or assistance, even when it comes to sex.

Create the Right Environment

When you talk to your daughter about sex, you should be sure that you have first created the right kind of environment. If you begin your discussion with anger or accusations, you will likely find that your child will rebel against this in frustration and ultimately shut you out. Be sure that your daughter is listening intently to every word that you say by creating a comfortable environment where your child feels as though she is not subject to your judgments or criticisms.

Get on the Same Page

Many teenagers do not talk to their parents about sex because they feel as though their parents will simply prohibit them (in one way or another) from engaging in activities that could potentially lead to sex (like parties). Otherwise, they may simply feel as though their parents are trying to control them during a period of time in their lives

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