by Laurie Miles

Created on: April 16, 2009

Sexy is the look he gives me when he walks through the door at the end of the day. It is the way he walks around the house. He saunters towards me with confidence; his hands in his pockets and a smile on his face.

What makes my man sexy is the way he speaks to me alone and nobody else. He has a deep voice which turns me on to no end. He sings and plays the guitar. I now understand why every girl wants a rock star. I have mine and it is incredibly sexy to have a man look you in the eyes and sing a love song to you.

He is totally hot when he is fixing something for me in the house. He is an Engineer by trade so he takes on household chores easily and efficiently. He doesn't whine.

His intelligence may be the thing that tips me over the edge and seals the deal. I love talking to him and hearing what he has to say whether its politics, religion or sex.

Speaking of sex, the act in itself is sexy. Some might say it is an obvious conclusion that I would find being intimate with him sexy. I have been in another relationship that was inhibited and stilted. I do not take it for granted that our lovemaking is sexy, sensual and over the top incredible.

He is tall and broad shouldered. He is comfortable in his own skin. He loves animals and is good with kids. He is kind and warm and funny. He is affectionate.

I melt just a little when he calls me "Sweetie" When he puts his arms around me and kisses me goodbye before he leaves for work, I really wish he would stay home instead. I don't have that overwhelming urge to be alone so I can get my own stuff done. I will gladly hang out with him instead.

He compliments me every day over my looks, my cooking and my contributions to our relationship. He makes it clear the lingerie I wear does matter and is specific about what he likes and what he doesn't. He knows exactly what he wants. Now that is sexy!

It is sexy that he appreciates me. He thanks me for the meals I prepare and the laundry I do. He brings me flowers just because he feels like it.

It is really sexy when he works out. He stays in shape and takes pride in his biceps (which I more than appreciate).

He is sexy in his compassion and understanding for those less fortunate than we are. He is very loving with his family and mine. We are both well into middle age and have made our share of mistakes.

We celebrate humor and love. I am grateful every day that this wonderful, sexy man is in my life.

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