by Wonda Waide

Created on: April 15, 2009

I feel personally there is not a "no" policy when laughing during sex. Sex can be so serious at times from four play to ecstasy. People put such a huge emphasis on sex to start with. More women then men think about outside the gratification.

For a women sex is not about sex unlike it is with men and yes some women it is about sex to but the most part of us its are the lights going to stay on, do I look to fat, is he going to see this stretch mark or birth mark and be turned off. Now we don't share those thoughts of course that's why its such pressure for women because our head is filled up with so much and the guy did not do it we do it every women in her time has put to much emphasis on a sexual encounter instead of just going in to enjoy herself with another. Therefore, I would like to share a story of my experiencing in laughing during sex. Because I as most women are on a serious level when it concerns sex. I always worried about many other things during sex instead of enjoying the personal experience. Therefore, I started using laughter in everything in my life because it cut down the tension for me in my head. Now of course some men do not acquire the taste of laughing but there are things you will tell your girlfriends about when you were personal with someone and it was so hilarious why not at the time? Why is it funny to tell a girl but not share it with the person your with at the time? My man now says he try's not to get me to laugh or its never ending. Some things during sex are just too funny, to keep in I have no clue how anyone would say a no-no to laughing.

I was with a person who was much older than I was and he had the greatest sense of humor so I never thought he would not laugh with me during sex well he did.

I know everyone has heard the word or heard the works of "the qweef? Its not in the dictionary but it has rolled off each one of our tongues one time or another and I am sure as you read this you are laughing by the mere mention of the word "qweef". never the less we were in our own actions and the sound of the qweef came in the middle where it was so quiet you could of heard the walking of a mouse tiny feet walking on the floor. Immediately I started laughing assuming he was going to laugh with me and well I was wrong. I laughed a good forty seconds before I realized I was the only one laughing. He acted as if nothing had even happened. I of course went with his idea as nothing happened and shared with my closes friends so someone could laugh with me and I hope you are laughing with me now.

That relationship did not work out I saw him differently from that time on because to me his sense of humor was not on my level as I thought before. That's not the direct reason why it did not last but a start.
I say laugh, talk and most of all be yourself during a person situation because only you can be you and if you feel comfortable laughing during sex then do so. If you do not feel comfortable then do not. Either way it is your choice. There is not a no-no to laughing during a personal experience because it's your experience and no one can tell you how to act. So take charge of your situations and make them yours as I have.

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