by Pamela Smith

Created on: April 14, 2009

Today's dad may find himself in a bit of a role reversal with tough economic times, resulting in thousands of working dads being laid-off in the job market. More and more families are being forced to survive on a single family income. Of these single family incomes, many are being solely supported by mothers still in the workforce,

American families generally see the mother in the role of caring for the children and household, but sometimes instant changes in the economy can mean that more and more dads are immediately thrust into this role and may find it more difficult to meet the challenges. There are some things that these dads can do to become successful at home moms.

Through trial and error, at home dads can spice up their cooking talent. Believe me, if it isn't good the children won't mind to let you know. Most children will even find it amusing to tell mom, as soon as she arrives, how awful an attempt dad made at cooking. The next time you are in the kitchen, invite the kids to help. This will not only earn dad some points with the kids, but will allow for some quality time together. Dads should of course focus on cooking quick and easy meals. and of course remember to think on the healthy side.

Since mom is still in the workplace, it is very important that dad take care of the household duties before she gets home from work. It is very likely that mom will be looking to dad for much more support around the house, since she could likely be working overtime at an attempt to offset the loss of dad's income. Dads should get into a routine around the house and create a schedule of those things to be accomplished throughout the day. Organize with the use of a weekly calendar. This routine could work well all week long, at least until one of the kids has another schedule that dad will have to meet due to extracurricular activities. Initially, Dad may find it difficult to accomplish all that there is to do but getting into a routine and even developing that much needed schedule for the week, will most likely support both the needs of the house and the needs of the children.

This will of course be a balancing act, as there is only so much time in the day. Dad's time will likely be spent cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, feeding the kids, running errands, ensuring homework is completed, and bedtime routines, just to name a few. Take the time to get organized, create a schedule for the week, take a cooking class if needed, relax and take a deep breath, it all happens again tomorrow! . Last, but not least, get some advice from other at home moms and dads. You will find this a great source of information and ideas. Once dad learns to accomplish all these things, and even lots more, he will be well on his way to being a successful at home dad.

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