by Vince Ryan

Created on: April 12, 2009   Last Updated: April 13, 2009

Interesting debate. And I'll have to side with Yes here. Now being a man it's really hard for me to comprehend why women may do anything just like how women may have trouble comprehending our ways. What I do understand, however, is that it is always deep in the bloodstream whenever a women hitched to a man decides to end it an run into a woman's arms.

There are so many controlling men out there who abuse their spouses with pleasure. And they may do it because it gives them some sense of superiority over their counterpart. This could be triggered by lack of ego strength or job loss and not being able to get back in the game. Basically, they've lost their swagger in being on top and so they dump all of their failings out on their wives; beating them, torturing them, verbally abusing them, or doing whatever. Women happen to be very sensitive creatures and need all of the love and support they can get during tough times. And instead some of them simply get battered around and spat at by their husbands experiencing nothing but pure bullying. And I don't think I'll ever be able to relate to this but some of the women going through this abuse believe they need to be punished for something and so they go along with it living with every bruise in their body. They feel as though this is what they're deserving of and so they turn a deaf ear towards hotlines and help by family or friends. Some live in denial thinking that their spouse loves them when in actuality this is not true. And so after a while they grow weary of it and decide that they want out of the relationship. And after that some decide that they can't love men anymore and so decide to explore being in love with a woman.

In women that somehow becomes a trained response when they are slaughtered by men emotionally. They feel like every man will turn out to be like their ex-husband, ex-boyfriend, and so they wipe the whole male population out completely from their minds and decide to turn to the same sex. They realize now that loving women will provide them with more emotional and physical security.

But it doesn't always have to be abuse in the form of beating it could also be abuse in the form of what takes place in the bedroom. Women may be opposed to the idea of men being the breadwinners and rubbing it in their faces or men trying to score points in bed every night just for ego boosters. Women are more sensitive and emotionally weak by nature so you bet that the two above scenarios will have an emotional impact on them. It only drives them towards other women who have experienced similar types of abuses.

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