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There was a day when a female "player" was virtually unheard of, but that is not the case now. Somewhere along the way came a new era of women, some of which decided that they were sick of getting played by men, so they would go from being the playee to being the player. This is unfortunate indeed, as it insults the essence of womanhood and can hurt the men they are playing, just as men have hurt them in the past.

Men should avoid these women at all costs. There is nothing to gain from starting a relationship with one of these piranhas and you could end up losing a significant amount of money, not to mention your heart. She will make you look like a fool and walk away with not a care in the world. She will be happy that she has taken from you even while you are still wondering what in the world happened. As you give more and more, she will charm you more and more. This will only go on, though, until you have nothing left to give. At that point, you lose your usefulness to her and she's ready to walk away.

And walk away she does, complete with a piece of your pride. A player, whether man or woman, is never in it to build a relationship, though they'll lead you to believe they are if it suits their purpose. They are only there to take, take, and take some more. They can manipulate and lie with ease to accomplish their task. Men would do well to run the other way when they feel like they are being approached by these women.

There are also some female "players" who prefer sex to money. Of course, others need both. But, these women who are willing to go from one man to another and engage in intimate relationships without any commitment are very dangerous. They are often irresponsible, not using protection every time, and can be carriers of a torrent of sexually transmitted diseases. There is no protection that is one hundred percent reliable, so you are taking a huge risk, possibly with your life, by engaging in sexual pleasures with them. They don't want commitment, they only want momentary gain. Is that ever worth the chance of disease or death?

Female players are an insult and a degradation to womanhood. What happened to them to cause this disregard for what is naturally in their hearts? Women are born caregivers, affectionate and desirous of commitment from a special man. Somewhere along the way, something happened to these players that took those qualities and crushed them. They are no longer those sweet and kind helpers for men. They are players, plain and simple, and they will take until you watch them walk away, leaving you with only what they didn't want.

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