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Confidence, it seems to embody sexuality at it's apex, and I don't mean showing the most or acting the worst. Just to be able to walk in a room, and give off the vibe that you belong, but aren't trying to take over.

I'm 5'10", and have stood in a "forest" of friends who all stand well over 6 feet tall, and have been approached by women who told me I stood out. The ability to come in and blend, but yet be your own person is more eye catching than the big man on campus role.

Women are just as likely to be "suckers" when that right guy, stands his own piece of ground like a confident man. The same is true in reverse. Women who may not always be the supermodel of the group that personify confidence are more often more attractive than the diva who wants all the attention.

Once the magnetism has drawn two parties together, a natural, yet genuine and real communication is of the utmost importance. No one should be so attractive that it makes you change who you are as an individual. Talk real, and maybe it's a match, maybe it's not, but playing it fake can't last forever. If you really want to be an attraction to the opposite sex, show em the confident you!

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