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When I was younger I used to hear "find yourself a good man to take care of you."
A lot of traditional relationships were very much based on being caregivers to each other. Well, the problem with that scenario is that when we make someone else responsible for taking care of us we are giving our power away to that person at the same time.

When we give our power away to another person we live in fear and separation when we are dependent on that person to fulfill our needs on a consistent basis. Any circumstance or person that could change the relationship is seen as a threat. The more independent we are with our safety, security and trust coming from within us the more empowered we are as individuals. The more trust we have in our Self, meaning our Higher Self linked with our Soul and purpose, the more we can live without attachment.

When we live without attachment we are able to truly create more intimacy in our relationships. We develop a trinity of mind, body and soul, with each partner in the relationship being able to offer their piece of the cosmic puzzle.

This feeds the relationship as well as all that come in contact with the participants in the relationship. We are then able to be each other's lover, companion and friend. We become partners in parenthood of our own children as well as the children of this world as we are associates in creating Heaven on Earth.

We cease putting walls around our relationships because our relationship is then spirit based. We are more exposed yet we are able to love without conditions. We create a relationship with our partner where our creativity has the biggest arena for expression. Our creativity comes directly from the Source of Infinite Light and Love instead of through a partner or other individual.

We make the sacred marriage of the male and female principles of life within ourselves. We are enabled to offer more to others because we are not taking from them on more hidden levels of reality. We cease having to protect a relationship because we know that a relationship fails to be destroyed by any person or circumstance external to us. We also don't have to try to manipulate on any level of Being to maintain the relationship either because we have a relationship with who we are. We know a partner only reflects how connected we are with the relationship with ourself.
At this stage we are becoming our Soul light and love with a body sustained in a process of evolution. We are then actively transforming every single thought, feeling and form in our environment and the consciousness on the planet.

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