by Lori Bloom

Created on: April 08, 2009   Last Updated: April 09, 2009

Traditions are certain customs or beliefs that are passed on from one generation to the next. Some families have traditions for holidays such as Christmas and Easter, but they are typically based on religious belief. This is true with Good Friday. It is a symbolic day for all religions so mostly any tradition a family may have for this day might be considered religious. The Christians typically celebrate this day by being solemn and reflective of Jesus being crucified. Usually families will attend a special church service. Pagans also celebrate this day, but for a different reason. Good Friday symbolizes the Spring Equinox. It is a time for worshipping the earth and encouraging growth for a bountiful season. Usually families will attend an outdoor service, around a campfire with an alter and prayers for the earth's fertility.

A Good Friday tradition that may seem less religious, is to plan a family hike or walk to not only show appreciation for nature, but to also bring the family together for quality time. A family hike doesn't have to be extreme, it can simply entail taking a stroll through trails in a park, or even your backyard. In this busy world, sometimes the pollution and chaos can be overwhelming. Taking a stroll through nature can relax you and help you to appreciate the little things, like pretty little flowers growing all around, or a cute lizard sitting on a rock, sunning itself. Waterfalls are inspiring to look at. They are powerful, yet beautiful, and sound of the water crashing below can be soothing.

Another non religious Good Friday tradition could be the first campfire of the season, where you can roast marshmallows with the kids, look up at the starlit night and the almost full moon. This can be done in the snow, if you live in the colder region of the states. As long as everyone dresses warm and you have lots of dry firewood, it can be a great tradition for a family. This might be a good day to do your spring yard work so you can burn any unwanted limbs or branches.

A special family dinner on Good Friday is a great tradition for any family. Make a meal with a little bit of everyone's favorites. A small pan of lasagna, homemade chicken tenders with different sauces for dipping, or chicken wings. This type of smorgasbord might not all go together, but the key is that everyone would get to eat their favorite thing. This would emphasize the importance of each family member.

Traditions can be started with any generation. You may even replace some old traditions with new ones if you like. The important thing, is that any tradition you have will bring your family together, which is very important to everyone, no matter the age or religion.

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