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Created on: April 06, 2009
The 3 Most Common Dating Mistakes Women Make
In this world, there are already so many mistakes a person can make throughout their daily lives. Yet, the irony strikes out when most of us blunder across the same mistakes again and again. Is there no stop to the insanity? There is! If you'll just follow me through the three biggest mistakes most women make when entwined in dating and relating, then you can make sure that you are not one of the common!
Biggest Dating Mistake #3: Under-Confidence
Playing hardball is one thing, but when you act like you hate the woman you are, it gives off bad vibes. Plenty of woman today have grown up with poor self images, and it results in a poor dating habits in adult life. How is a man ever supposed to feel comfortable in a room with you, if you don't feel comfortable with yourself?
Biggest Dating Mistake #2: Over-Confidence
Having to much confidence or being pushy or authoritative can give off to a man that you might be manipulative, high maintenance or just plain intimidating. If you could cool the jet engines before you go out on your next date, you would probably have an easier time treading the dating waters. Having too much confidence has some women acting egotistically or over flirty, and it does not come off well to others in the room. Be careful with your confidence level, its great that you love yourself and you know that you have a lot to offer, just don't let it get out of hand. Remember that the man you dating wants to feel important too.
Biggest Dating Mistake #1: Acting Desperate
There are plenty of women in todays societies that are down right open legged, and I think the most common Dating mistake women make, is acting desperate. Its great that there is a new age of woman, but does that mean we have to rule out class? And a little bit of chase?
It may be a bit primordial, but men still love a good chase. It can be too hard or far of a chase, but you actually have to create some sort of reason for the hunt, if you don't want to be depicted as 'too easy'. Quick fixes are one thing, and its all good if your not looking for more than a fling, but when you want to get serious, you better be willing to work at getting them to work for it, at least a little. Acting desperate doesn't necessarily mean you really are desperate, but it's all the same when your willing to give up the whole cow just to get one moment of sweet milky love. Hold off a few times! Make em get you some flowers or at least join you for dinner before you start making mattress meetings.
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