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Are men to blame when gold diggers exploit them?

by Jay Bee

Created on: April 03, 2009   Last Updated: April 04, 2009

Desire can be deadly!

I think men are to blame when gold diggers exploit them because they put everything out in the open.

It's like a bag a candy for the candy eaters to come and get.

Since the beginning of time the blame has been on the man who thrives on a vulnerable woman. She may be successful in her life but for some reason the man knows her true desire and uses this to feed on. I think this is one of the ways men get what they want from women. Because of shear vulnerability!

Women exploit men when they no longer can get what they want from the man. They have become spoiled and like a drug addict they are addicted. Now the man wants to break away and the gold diggers feels they are entitled to what the man has or is offering.

When a pimp deals with a gold digger unfortunately he has something else in mind and it won't be good.

If a man is successful and trying to wheel women in knowingly they are gold diggers who are looking for nothing but trouble because both parties have an agenda.

And sooner or later the truth is going to hit the fan.

Gold diggers necessarily don't wont gold but they want everything their little hearts desire and why?

Gold diggers experience emptiness, thinking they are entitled, jealousy, mental illness, pain, trying to get ahead in a unnatural ways.

If a man wants an uncanny and deceitful entrepreneur then by all means he will be entitled to the worldly possession of troubles.

Most successful men put their families, their own lives, safety, and well being on the line if they deal with gold diggers. There is an old saying "You are the company you keep".

All that is lost will be lost and all that is found shall not be.

Meaning, things will change and not for the better. How do men become exploited by gold diggers? Gossip! people who have a found out something about these men and want to let everybody know what is going on, even the people who do not want to know.... isn't this the whole idea?

If men are going to play the game of dealing with gold diggers then do it right, don't mess up your happy home, spread diseases, or use women for gain in vague ways. There is a flip side to the coin, if a woman wants to be looked at as a gold digger exploiting men this will not be the only title that she will carry. Everyone fights back even a man who likes gold diggers!

A 360 degree circle is revolved and of course people can get hurt, physically, mentally, and emotionally. At some point in time somebody has to ask if they want to be a part of the 360 degree of deceit? Life is very challenging but consequences is the worst challenge to deal with when everything is said and done.

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