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Created on: April 03, 2009
Nothing is worse than the dreadful realization when you're on a date that you're going out with "The Womanizer" or "The Sarcastic Guy". You sit there and find yourself wondering, "How did I end up here...again?!" Well, you can't blame yourself entirely. Sometimes, people will fake an identity for social purposes. A womanizer might not seem like a womanizer, until you start going out with him a couple of months later. However, there are some men that do put themselves out there, and yet we can't help but feel attracted to them. There's the sarcastic guy whom we just think he's funny, or the womanizer whom you're annoyed by, but always brings flowers. Ladies, we can do so much better. It's time to look at these men and say, "Enough!". These types of men are the ones you should avoid forever. They only bring heartbreak, annoyance, and countless frustration.
Type 1: The Womanizer A.K.A. "The Ladies Man"
Don't be fooled by his sweetness. This guy is one heck of an annoyance. He'll be promising at first: give you flowers and chocolates, remember your birthday, anniversaries, etc. Beneath the surface of this manly mold is a jerk. After he lures you in with his supposed swagger, he'll start flirting with women. It'll start simple: give other women the eye, then start to make comments. If you last with the womanizer, he'll eventually cheat on you. When confronted, will say "Baby...I can't help it. The ladies love me, who am I to resist them?" Immediately dump, not worth your time.
Type 2: The Sarcasm Guy
Okay, most women love a guy with a sense of humor. He can make us laugh and make us feel at ease. However, there's a difference between "Comedic Guy" and "Sarcasm Guy". If you're lucky, you'll find a mild version of him. The one who's sarcastic but not mean. The one to AVOID is the truly sarcastic guy. He'll make sarcastic remarks about everything. He'll even use his sarcasm on you, and more often than not, attempt to hurt you with words. You'll ask him to take out the trash and he'll make his sarcastic retort: "Oh okay honey, I'll take out the trash." and then mutter under his breath about how YOU always have to make him take out the trash. Immediately dump, this ain't humor ladies, it's annoyance.
Type 3: The Porno Guy
Don't confuse this guy with a guy who casually watches porn. This guy is 100x different. While a normal man will casually watch porn once or twice a week, this guy will watch it once or twice within an hour. Some Porno Guys will try to incorporate what he
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