by Amanda Shukri

Created on: March 31, 2009   Last Updated: April 01, 2009

Fom the moment I was told that I was pregnant with my son, I was determined to exclusively breastfeed him. I had tried with my first child, and it went well for about four months, at which point I was working so many extra hours to make ends meet that breastfeeding became physically impossible and I converted my daughter to formula. Within a few days of the switch, she was already showing signs of weight loss, and developed her first ear infection.

I regretted the formula decision, but by that time it was too late. I just couldn't produce enough milk for her anymore. I didn't want to make the same mistake with my son. I looked up all the information that I could on nursing, and found a lactation consultant at the hospital I was to deliver at right away. I found a wealth of information that I did not even know was out there.

I learned that relactation is actually possible, even if your milk has completely dried up. I even found out that women who adopted could breastfeed with the proper stimulation, and the process doesn't even require any special medications. I wish I would have had that information three years age. That could have helped me tremendously. This time, I would be prepared.

My son was born via an emergency cesarean section, and he was struggling at first. The doctors stressed that in his condition, breastmilk was more vital than ever. I was determined not to let my son down. He latched on beautifully the first time, and his health improved very quickly. Five days later, he was allowed to go home, perfectly healthy.

The pediatrician said his fast recovery was directly attributed to breastmilk. This affirmed my faith and commitment to exclusively nursing him. He is now ten months old, and thankfully I have never had to give him formula or supplements of any kind. I have been very blessed. He is an extremely happy little boy, and I believe that breastfeeding is somewhat responsible for the amazingly strong bond that I have with him. I know that bond will last a lifetime.

All emotions aside, breastmilk was designed for your baby, and is scientifically proven to be the best food that you can provide for your child. And I'm sure that I am not wrong when I say that there isn't a parent on this earth that doesn't want the absolute best for their child.

I realize that in some cases, breastfeeding is not feesible, but for those that want to do it, a little patience goes a long way. You will forever be thankful for the choice you made, as will your baby. If you need proof that your baby appreciates this, just look into his eyes the next time you nurse him, and feel the love.

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