by Anna Hofman

Created on: January 28, 2007   Last Updated: May 06, 2007

If you like him enough to want to be with him all the time then surely you like him enough to want him to want you... ALLOT... This is how you play the cards.
Call up to three times a week maximum - not every day.
Show interest in him - but not obsession ladies! - It is not attractive.
Be able to tell him you cant meet up on a particular day because you're seeing a friend, this is great because he'll feel like he isn't number one and will want to work for it - the only danger is if you do this too often you will hurt his feelings and he will look for attention elsewhere.

We've all been there I think, you know... Finding yourself thinking about him day and night non-stop until you're sure you're going insane...
Well, if you want to avoid that, simply keep yourself busy with other activities - go out for walks, read, play games, call friends (not him) and be sure to have a life aside from your boyfriend. Because if you don't, if your relationship ends,then what are you going to do with your days?

You need to keep yourself busy - without forgetting him. It's all about balance.

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