by Barbara Griffin

Created on: March 27, 2009

I guess it depends on the person, their state of mind, emotional stability and willingness to concede to a spiraling heart. Love can be enjoyed in a variety of ways, but when it comes to the affairs of the heart love takes on a different meaning. The usual function changes course and deviates from the act of love toward a deeper terrain into the action of love.

The act of love is to experience symptoms bordering near the surface, it reflects the emotions you feel as a result of participating in what love has to offer. These fetishes come and go like an endless cycle of fantasy, because love is seen as a savior rather than an honor and dedication to that special someone. Blinders have gotten in the way while they're desperately trying to find the right one.

When falling in love, the heart is involved with love's persuasive power. A stronger force engulfs the capacity of your heart. You feel a connection that seems to bind you to the spirit of the other person. It proves to be more than a temporary grip on your heart that will loosen or eventually fade away.

Falling in love comes as a surprise even though it's always hoped for and imagined with certain guidelines as to how it should manifest. The impact, although slow and silent as it gradually develops, is massive. If a certain feeling is felt in accordance with what is expected, then love is sent on a divine journey to pursue and conquer in a delicate manner.

Love's unselfish fall into uncharted bliss is a weightless wonder on a soft flowing flight that gentle floats upon a downward spiral into the core of the heart. Once touched it will unlock a treasured property consisting of bountiful affection, delightful charm, perfect caring and complete devotion.

Whether or not a person follows through with an action to reciprocate the feeling and fall for love's choice is dependent upon the desire to love and be loved. If love isn't what a person wants it may be shunned, denied or received with negative input. If love is sincerely desired it will be celebrated., encouraged and enjoyed to the fullest.

It's easy to fall in love if you're love conscience. For some people love is a concept without the possibility of ever coming true. Perhaps, they feel this way because love wasn't given as a gift, but related as a chore. The responsible party may not have seen fit to acknowledge love as a pleasure, instead, it was implied as being a burden to bare.

Trauma, cruelty, abuse and neglect could affect how easy or how hard falling in love can be. A few failed relationships, divorce, infidelity, and deceitfulness can dull the colors of the rainbow that makes love bloom beautifully. If you no longer see the beauty of love, falling in love is pretty much out of the question....it's practically banded or sent into exile,

Love is the basis for constructing a life we want for ourselves and those we dearly love, nothing can take the place of love's tender kindness. Without a doubt loving is easy, our existence is built on love, made with love and kept with love by God's design and sacrifice of his only begotten son. Love isn't a trivial pursuit, it shouldn't be taken nor given lightly.

The question remains as to fall in love or hold your peace, even if it's staring you in the face or charging down from the highest mountain, the final answer lies within the combined agreement of the heart and mind. The process could take seconds to an hours, days to months, and years to nearly a lifetime.

"Falling in love whether easy or not is futile if it isn't caught".

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