by Janette Peel

Created on: March 26, 2009

You probably have a good idea of how you would like your life to run and imagine it could only be a dream, but by setting a few goals it doesn't have to be.

Setting goals is harder than it sounds. There are so many areas of your life where you could start: your job, family, relationships, health and fitness, and further education. Everyone has dreams and attempting to realize them can be incredibly stressful. Sometimes the pressure to succeed can build up into a brick wall that prevents you from getting where you want to go.

Changing the way you think about goals can affect the end result. It is much better to say to yourself, "I will execute this task well" than "I must not make that mistake again". Positive thinking can make setting a goal easier than berating yourself with negativity.

Write down your goals as short, concise sentences. This will focus your mind and help you gain knowledge about them. You can decide what it is you want to achieve and construct a step-by-step plan on how to get there.

Setting personal goals helps to build up your self-confidence as it allows you to focus and measure your successes. Try not to set goals that are too hard to reach and you should see results come quickly. You could start with something simple like spending more time with your family. This might mean a joint activity or having dinner together.

Involving all the members of your family will help to clarify everyone's differing needs. If you are the type of person that sets goals relatively easily, but find the execution difficult, try to identify what's stopping you. Perhaps you lack self-discipline. If this is the case, ask a friend if they will help coach you and keep you on track. For example, join an evening class with a friend.

Don't be discouraged if you can't turn everything around at once. Start by setting small targets and you'll be surprised how much of a difference they will make.

Looking forward

What kind of goals do you want to set? You may find that you have some lifetime ambitions like taking early retirement and emigrating, or starting a family; or more short-term goals like taking a course that will enhance your personal development. Breaking you ideas down in this way will help clarify your needs and enable you to structure the plans you have.

Define your ambition

If you are finding it difficult to make a decision about where to start, begin by writing a goal down on paper and then list the benefits and advantages of achieving that goal. Once you have about

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