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early in the morning like I use to when I was on my way to work and she also called him late at night. But I still never told him about my "friend".

So fast forward to today, I've done all that cheating on him for what? It didn't make us do better. It didn't even break us up. I don't want to be with the other guy anymore. My ex-boyfriend is out having the time of his life with his friends. I am no longer that someone that's been on his mind that he's thought about over and over. My thought of cheating on him failed. I wanted him to see that there are others out there who could care for me and love me just like he did and they could do even more. That point didn't get a crossed. I don't want to be a cheater. I didn't plan on cheating. I wanted to be in a happy and healthy relationship like most people. Looking back now, cheating didn't help anything it just made it worse for me. For all I know his female friend could have been just that.

When I started cheating that's when the mind games starts to play. Your guilt takes over and just ruins everything. I can say what I've learned if you really love someone, not just love but have that gut busting love where if your boyfriend or girlfriend is out hanging with his or her buddies you feel like you are going insane because they're not around. Tell them! Tell them everything all your feelings do not hold back. This all goes back to this saying treat people the way you want to be treated. If you feel like you deserve honesty what makes the other person any less than you?

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