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This is something that was just thought of from the top of my head.

First before I go on I'm not claiming to be the guru of cheating. I don't know all about it. I just know from my past experiences.

For years many I've always heard females of all ages say "Once a cheater always a cheater". My question is it true? Personally, my is answer no.

I suppose when it comes down to cheating there are many categories like cheating on your finances, cheating your way through school, cheating in athletics and so on. What I am talking about is cheating in relationships. I could be wrong but from what I've seen in my twelve years of dating (no I haven't been with the same person for twelve years. But I've "talked" and dated a good amount of guys) that there are two (and like I said I could be wrong) types of cheaters.

1. People who cheat in their relationship regardless how well the relationship is going. They would go tell their other half that they are the, (and I emphasize) THE ONE and only but there are three or four sitting in the wing. Then when their partner(s) start picking up signs that there's someone else out there and confront that person their answer would be I can't be with just one person. I have enough loving to spread all around. BUT you are the one I care about; I do not treat the others like I treat you. Whatever! That type of person isn't my focus here. I am talking about the type of cheater I am or once was.

2. People who cheat on their other halves and continue to love their partners as the best as they can. That's me. This is my second time I've cheated on a serious boyfriend. The first time I was only in highs school. Peer pressure was thick in the air. You never want to go around looking like a fool and you don't want to cheat on them. So you have a back up plan (person) anyway. My first ex boyfriend had these buddies that would never go to school. He started hanging with them more and more and while I was in school I didn't know they were going to different schools seeing what girls were skipping school and then bring them over to one of their houses (apartments). When I would come home from school I would see him standing out side our apartment building talking to one girl and when I finally got a chance to see him he said he was just keeping her company because her other friends were talking to his friends. It was a mess but that's high school. No one's quite mature yet. His friends started telling me things and I would confront him about it and

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