by Darlene Zagata

Created on: March 26, 2009

Childhood is so joyous yet so fleeting. During my youthful years I was never a typical child. Instead of being out playing where I should have been, I was always wherever the adults were. I preferred the company of adults to that of other children. I don't know why. Of course, I had friends my own age and as I look back I can remember the moments of fun and childish laughter.

I grew up on a farm and loved all the freedom to roam. I spent most of my time outdoors with the animals, running free through the corn field and dipping my toes in the pond. It was the only place I ever felt truly alive and totally free. I honestly believe it was the best time of my life. I wish I could turn the clock back and become that adolescent girl who loved live so much once again.

I regret that I ever left the farm. I also regret that I didn't learn and do more as a child. I was too busy trying to be an adult that I forgot to enjoy being a child. If I could go back in time to my childhood, I would cherish each moment of my youth by living it to the absolute fullest. Friendship is something else that I would make the most of if I could do it all again. I've lost touch years ago with most of my childhood friends.

I would encourage all children to just be themselves and have fun doing it. Even though we can't actually turn back time and physically become children once again, we can learn to nurture the child that exists within all of us. Go ahead and let your inner child come out and play. I still love going to the park and swinging on the swings. I love spinning in circles and falling down in the grass watching the clouds move above me. I love to put on the old songs from my youth and dance as I did years ago. It's fun to do and it's who I really am. Although my physical appearance has changed, I am still that little person I was long ago. She still exists within me. I love to be silly and laugh so hard I cry.

There's nothing wrong with letting the child in you have some playful fun. In fact, it's a great way to relax and relieve stress. Get the kids together and join in on the fun. Become one again with the child that is you. Looking back on your childhood and missing it doesn't have to be depressing. In fact, it can be a good reminder of who you really are inside and help you to become that fun loving person again. Cherish every moment of every stage of your life and that's how you really live life to the absolute fullest.

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