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Sexy is as sexy does, isn't that what we women have always heard? Well, that may be true for us, but it is more true by far for the stronger gender. A woman can actually be sexy in appearance and men will see that in her because their hormones are wired to respond to the visual. For a man to be sexy in our eyes, though, he must have far more than a hot body and a chiseled face. He must have sex appeal and that is a much deeper quality.

The first thing that makes a man sexy is kindness. We will see it in his smile and in his eyes. When I see a man assisting an elderly person with something, he becomes sexy to me. Most especially, of course, if that man happens to be my own husband who I love already. A man who gets down on his knees to help a child tie a shoe, or a man who keeps a smile on when he's been at a red light for too long or is being passed on the freeway by a younger man in a tougher car...he's sexy.

I don't care much what a man looks like on the outside if he knows how to love a woman in a way that she can respond likewise to and feel confident in. A faithful man is a gift and he will always be seen as sexy. He enables his woman to feel secure and valuable in a way that the philanderer's wife or girlfriend never will. He is sexy and as he transfers his adoration onto us, we grow sexier as well.

A husband who is a good provider and an engaging father is in a league all of his own. When he comes home from work, whether he is a plumber or a Wall Street trader, and still makes time to take care of the needs of his family that only can fulfull, he is an incredible turn-on. He shows a strength that few men do as he provides financially, emotionally and mentally. When he is willing to pick up the slack around the house when his wife is feeling under the weather, he is over the top wonderfully good-looking.

A spiritual man is sexy to me. In setting aside his own sense of power to one that is higher than himself, he displays a strength in his willingness to become weak. His moral aptitude may be greater than that of his peers because his belief system dictates that it should be. He has a desire to do the right thing, not just the easy thing.

There are so many things that can lend to a man a sexiness that is unforgettable. It is not necessarily all about his actual looks, although that is a bonus. It is about the whole man who loves the whole woman and shares something magical because of it. That man is a prince, and a very sexy one at that.

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