by Carlie Lawson

Created on: March 23, 2009   Last Updated: April 06, 2009

Sometimes it can help to have a little additional insight into your romantic life. Friends and family may offer advice, but consulting a psychic can help you uncover new insight into yourself, your partner, your relationship, or help you in finding love. Many psychics use the Tarot to channel their and your energies on the question you seek to answer. To get the most out of consulting a psychic who uses the Tarot, you should familiarize yourself with Tarot basics: how to form a good question to ask the psychic and what affects reading interpretation.

Best questions regarding romance and relationships
Tarot readings work best when the Querent (you) approaches with one specific question in mind. Don't confuse the reading with multiple questions. Closed ended questions, i.e. yes or no, true or false, work best. Share this single question with the psychic conducting the reading and meditate on it during the reading. Some common questions about romance and relationships suitable for Tarot readings include:

- "Will I meet my true love in the current year?" or the variant for long-term planners interested in finding love, "Will I meet my true love in the coming year?"

- "Is the person I am with now my life's mate?" or "Will I marry the person I am with now?"

- "Is my current love interest cheating on me?" or "Did my current lover have sex with another?"

- "Will my significant other and I make up from our argument?"

- "Will my current friendship with _______ become a romantic involvement?"

- "Should I ask _______ out on a date?

Reading interpretations
The most important thing to remember is that the psychic and the Tarot can not and should not make decisions for you. The psychic offers guidance and insight.

How the psychic interprets the cards depends on a number of choices they make. It's up to you to ask plenty of questions before the reading begins, so you have a clear understanding of what to expect. These questions include:

- What spread does the reader use?
The most common Tarot spreads are the: Celtic Cross aka the Ten Card, Progression, Star, Horseshoe, and Alternatives, but each has its own value. While the Progression, Star, and Horseshoe spreads help the Querent determine how to achieve a goal, the Celtic Cross and Alternatives spreads lend themselves to romantic questions since they provide clear detailed insight into others involved in the situation. The Celtic Cross layout provides the most detail to a romantic situation and works well in romancer-related psychic

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