by Sharon Brook

Created on: March 22, 2009

As children mean the world to us, the question of shielding them from sexual predators should be one of our overriding concerns as parents. This is an ongoing process and must involve vital communication, effective guidance and keen scrutiny of the way children conduct themselves. Confronted by alien situations, they may betray negative qualities such as anger, revulsion, and a tendency to ill-treat or react unfavorably to other people.

It is for us as parents to make an effort to inspire confidence in children so that they are assured of our support in times of need and confident that they can unburden themselves to us whenever they want. Patience is vital at such times, as children come to terms with the situation that they may be up against. In time, they will be able to come forward and reveal any difficulties they may have been having with sexual stalkers.

Children can be helped to cope with such situations in various ways. One of these is for them to be told stories built around hypothetical situations. They can then be prompted to suggest possible solutions to such situations, should they encounter them in their own lives. This kind of approach can give them the opportunity they need to reveal any anything that may be troubling them.

It would help to keep a close watch on the environment these children are living in for vital clues to events that could turn out to be significant pointers to us as parents. Indications of discomfort, deviation from normal behavior patterns, lack of enthusiasm for activities to which they have always been fond of, etc. may all add up to evidence that something is seriously wrong. This could well be the result of threats from sexual predators, which children may be hesitant to reveal.

It is at such times that parents must be able to offer children the love and support that is so vital to their well being. Failing to be alert and receptive to such critical developments could aggravate the problem even to the point of no return.

Should parents feel that they are unable to get through to their children in such situations, it is absolutely essential for them to seek the guidance of professional counselors or clerics in their quest for a solution to the crisis.

It is also critical for parents to give children the confidence that they will be assured of unconditional love and support, regardless of their situation. It is this kind of assurance that will give them the strength to cope with sexual predators that pose a threat to their safety and happiness.

It's important to remember that these children are in a delicate state and may easily be turned away if they are brushed aside. Sensitive reactions from parents will give children who may be in crisis the security of being able to depend on them for protection.

Parents also need to bear in mind that every child is different and that one child may respond differently to another in the same kind of situation. Since this is so, parents need to temper their responses to cues they receive from the child's behavior. The more perceptive they are, the more effectively they will be able to respond.

Last but not least, parents should take into account that this is a technological age and sexual predators may be able to use technology to their advantage. As a result, if parents are not alert to the problems their children face, sexual deviants could victimize children under the very noses of their parents.

The purity and simplicity of children is invaluable and must be protected at all costs, using every available resource - whether psychological, spiritual, medical, legal or technological - so that sexual predators are brought to book and can no longer pose a threat to the welfare and happiness of our children.

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