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Fighting with the one you love is one of the most distressing things that can happen in a day. There are so many emotions and usually, you are simply trying to get a point across without allowing them to flow over and take away the logic of your opinion or feeling. However, there are times that those same emotions that bind you to that person in love also make you crazy when they just can't seem to understand what you are saying to them. An argument ensues and before you know it, you're not speaking at all. This is a terrible feeling.

One of the ways that some couples break the ice of that silence and come back together as a couple is through sex. I am not referring to casual sex with someone you barely know, but the lovemaking that happens between two people who are truly in love with one another. It may seem like an odd way to bring an argument to a close for those who aren't in this habit, but if you will take a moment to think about the concept, you may begin to see why it makes perfect sense.

Although there are those who believe that sex was created for the sole purpose of procreation, I must say that I disagree completely. If that were the case, it certainly wouldn't need to be so incredibly enjoyable. I believe that sex was given to us, as humans, for procreation as well as a way to bind together a husband and a wife. The bodies of the two become one, but so do the spirits. There is a transfer of emotion, passion, and love that occurs in caring lovemaking. It is an irreplaceable gift.

When the two are unified in such an enormous way, the disagreements and irritations seem smaller. Looking into the loving eyes of your partner, you can see and remember what brought you together in the first place. Sex affirms your love and tells the other person that you are still drawn to them, regardless of your differences. It says, "I love you and I want you in my arms, in my spirit, and in my heart even if we aren't perfect and aren't exactly the same". That is an amazing statement that can be said through this one physical act. There are no words that say it the same way.

Fighting with your lover can ruin a whole day or even longer, leaving you with no energy, no focus, no smile. You don't have to let it, though. Turn down the sheets, the lights, and the anger and turn up the passion and the love for a time of pleasuring one another. You may be quite surprised at how quickly things can turn around and come back into focus for the two of you.

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