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A woman suddenly shouts in the middle of the night, "Get up! Get out! My husband is coming!" The man beside her was startled and sat up. He looked at the woman who was apparently dreaming and asked himself, "Is my wife cheating on me?"

There must be something going on to think this is happened right under his nose? His wife wouldn't have done what she subconsciously did if she was loyal to her husband and to their marriage. But how could he definitely catch his cheating wife?

Definitions

1. Infidelity is defined as any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, and is a breach of faith in an interpersonal relationship.

2. In marriage, sexual infidelity is called adultery. This is the voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and another person who is not his or her spouse.

3. Extramarital sex may also be used similarly as adultery, however this term is morally neutral.

Let's talk about numbers

1. Between 10 to 15% of children are conceived because of an affair.

2. There are more than 3, 000 DNA paternity tests commissioned by Australian men in 2003. A quarter of those cases revealed that their child had been fathered by someone else.

In 30% of paternity tests by American Association of Blood Banks, the father was not the true biological parent.

3. Alfred Kinsley showed that 26% of married women engaged in extramarital sex.

How to catch a cheating wife

1. Where does she spend all those time?

Going to the grocery for 5 hours. Running errands here and there. Going on an out of town trip with her "girlfriends." Spending a lot of time at the gym, spa, mall, or club house; when you ask about these long hours spent, she would only give you plain and simple responses, not expounding and certainly, not revealing any details.

2. Physical appearance

She has an obsession with her appearance, even if she just has to buy groceries or get stuff at the hardware store. She wears sexy clothes to attend homeroom meetings and lunch dates with her girlfriends.

3. Unexplained expenses

You accidentally see the bills and found out that there are a lot of new items which you haven't seen; ladies under wears, which you haven't noticed her wear and men's personal effects such as watches, lighters, or neckties, which you would assume as gifts for you but you haven't received any.

4. Communication

The time you spend together talking is shortened and she deliberately avoids further intimate discussions that you used to have.

You used to open her e-mails readily, now there's a sudden change of password. You noticed her carrying an extra phone, though she doesn't admit having one.

5. Different behavior

Even the children see their mom as a different person. The subtle behaviors of jumpiness, cautiousness and anxiety are more noticeable when you don't see any reason for such changes.

6. Catch her

The creeping suspicion that there is something wrong eats you up, with all the things mentioned above finally convinced you to make a move. If you don't want to investigate yourself, hire a detective and get hold of solid evidence.

This may be hard for you to accept, but having evidence may clear all the speculations you have. There may still be time to save your marriage.

References:
http://en. wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A dultery

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/E xtramarital_sex

http://ezinearticles.com/?How- to-Catch-My-Cheating-Wife& id=425467

http://www.e-spy-software.com/ signs_of_cheating_spouse.htm

http://www.askmen.com/dating/h eidi/41b_dating_girl.html

http://www.professorshouse.com /family/relationships/married- women-who-cheat.aspx

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