by Linda C. Turman

Created on: March 15, 2009   Last Updated: March 16, 2009

YES, of course! Think about this topic. Lets say one has a baby and it isn't talked too that much, it will only learn as it grows-but it's a possibility that child will be slow in learning. They are what we teach them. the more involved one gets with a child- the more they will learn. It's only obvious. I feel bad for the children and babies born from teens. It's not like they don't know about protection - of course they do! But, in some cases they do too be rebellious and other reasons. But, having children at that age - one can see how young and inexperienced they really are. they don.t see it in themselves until later on. when they become older, then they realize that they were too young and the parent were right after all. How many of us can relate too this? Though as a young parent, they don't know what they are in for. Neither does an adult wanting to have they're first child - but at least it is handled better in an adults care rather than a teens pregnancy. Education on certain things is important as soon as possible, but the more serious situations must be addressed when the time comes and with gentleness make it firm to them. Explain calmly though or most of the time the child will lash out, leave the room, etc. There's attitude also, but it goes with the territory. We have too take control as a parent. (It's like drowning). You do everything in your power to keep your head above water! There are ways to cope.

We all know how it was growing up. Though, for some it was hard and yet- it might not have been that bad. No-one likes to hear the word "NO"! for a child growing up - it seems that's all they hear. As we grow, that word interferes with everything we want and we want to do. We get hateful, mad, and throw tantrums, etc.We've all been through this But as children , it's hard to understand. Until they are adults and/or parents do they understand. Parents need to involved with their children at all costs. Otherwise how will they learn? Teaching seems hard, although, after awhile it gets easier because the child is taking it in more than one thinks. They are getting it (so to speak ). Paying attention is the better key to the children learning. Patience is another key. Doing things together can be fun and educational if done right with the two keys that I mentioned. If done right - it will keep the child more calm and want too learn. See, how that helps. I know there are times that things can get overbearing and the feel of a spanking might straighten the situation out. I know how children can push your every button. Though I never-ever spanked /hit my children. But, I believe I've raised them to be respectful and have manners and the list goes on. I can say they turned out to be wonderful adults! I'm glad . I have grandchildren and I can say that the girls are raising the grandchildren just as they were taught.

Trying to turn ones children too be best as adults is hard. But relax and teach. play it by ear. When they are grown- they will remember and realize that growing up really wasn't that bad after all. You'll feel good when your child can say: "Thanks for being my MOM and that I love you." When that happens- you know you've done great! Don't be in a hurry to have them grow to adults and just grow with them.

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