by Jeanne Dininni

Created on: January 27, 2007   Last Updated: April 30, 2007

Show 'Em Who's Boss! Or How to Lose Friends and Alienate People
A Comprehensive List of Leadership Techniques for the Truly Superior

Here is a list of 30 helpful tips on how you can reveal to the world the vast inner resources you possess, rising above the mire of mediocrity and reaching a pinnacle of success previously only dreamed of.

Get angry at least once a day. If 'blowing up' doesn't come naturally to you, this may take a little practice. But, be patient. In time it will become second nature to you. The reason this technique is so important is that it will teach people to take you seriously. It will also discourage them from resisting your ideas, 'suggestions,' and 'recommendations.' Never underestimate the value of this simple technique in setting the appropriate 'tone' for all your interpersonal and business relationships.

Be hyper-critical. Never fail to point out the faults of others at every possible opportunity-preferably in public and the more people around, the better. This not only keeps people on their toes, but also shows that you have real insight into the inner workings of the human psyche.

Be a blamer. After all, you know that whenever anything goes wrong, it's always their fault. So, why shouldn't other people know it, too? Otherwise, they might actually think it was your fault-and that certainly couldn't be the case! And why shouldn't they themselves be informed when they're wrong? You wouldn't want them to walk around thinking they were doing a good job, now would you? That just wouldn't be fair to them.

Be uncompromising-never give in! This will demonstrate your strength, giving you the upper hand in any situation in which you may find yourself. And we all know that control is a very important component of leadership. If you hold out long enough, eventually others will see that you are right-or at least they'll go along with your superior ideas-even if reluctantly. This will, of course, benefit them in the long run, though they may not be able to see that-or perhaps just won't admit it-right now.

When in doubt, rationalize. You can always think of a good reason for everything you do or want to do, if you try hard enough. Be creative. This is what "separates the men from the boys": the ability to convincingly call all the relevant arguments to your aid, at a moment's notice, whenever they are needed. With a little practice, you'll become an expert in no time.

Be sarcastic. It's the easiest way to add impact to your words. The best authors use

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