by Julio Rangel

Created on: March 02, 2009

First of all, this is a question that can never be answered fully. All woman are different. No one woman will have every quality you want in a mate. In fact, every woman will have some qualities that you try to run away from. Your best bet is to be open and willing to talk to these woman no matter how unattainable they may look. Sometimes we miss out on a great woman because we think they are too beautiful or successful to bother with us. I am with someone who fits into that category. If I saw her today for the first time I too may be a little to shy to talk to her. What made it happen was the fact that we were great friends before we got together. Our future may not have happened if I didn't approach her and said hi.

There is no way to know if a woman is what you want if you don't get to know her. Don't ask her out right away. Strike up a conversation and see what type of person she is. Trust your instincts. You will find out everything you need to know within the first ten minutes of conversation. What kind of person is she? Is she kind? Is she self involved? Can you see yourself with her for the rest of your life? I know these seem like deep questions to ask yourself in only ten minutes but if you want to keep her then these questions are exactly what you need the answers for.

A woman wants to have a good time above all. The best way to keep a woman's attention is to make her laugh. Have her enjoy your company. If you meet someone you are interested in find a reason to talk to her but don't share too much information right away. You have to make her want to know more about you and let her make her mind up on whether she likes you. Don't try too hard because if it's not a challenge to her then she will get bored very easily. Women aren't as aggressive as men so they will not necessarily do all the things men do when we like someone. If a woman is interested, trust me, you will know.

When we get with someone it is naive to think that our attitude won't change. We may get jealous, insecure or even possessive. The trick is to find out why we feel that way and work at losing those bad traits. When men are in love they act differently then they did before. We have to remember that women fall in love with the man they met in the beginning and miss that man when they are gone. If you want to keep your woman then understand that you must develop a friendship first and then never forget that above all you are with your best friend and treat her as such. A woman wants a man to make her feel secure and that she can always depend on him. You don't have to be rich or that handsome. If they got a man who they know will do anything to make them smile and treats them right, then you will become all things to the them. Always listen because every day a woman will tell you what they want. All you have to do is keep quiet and pay attention. Your whole goal should never be how to keep them but how to always keep them wanting you.

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