by Kerlain Kate

Created on: March 02, 2009   Last Updated: March 03, 2009

You have just begun dating? Greetings! And it's not a big problem if you still don't know the dating rules. Don't worry. I'm here to help you. Here are my advices just for you:

WHAT TO DO ON A DATE

1) Be yourself. He has asked you for a date, because he likes you the way you are. So there is no necessity to be too kind and too generous.

2) Try to look beautiful. But don't overdo. Don't use too much make-up. Don't scare your new date. You need to look simply, but attractive. Think about the any celebrity, which looks perfectly with simple clothes.

3) Keep a conversation by giving him some questions. And listen to what he says.

4) Suggest to pay a bill half by half. Unless he insist to pay it for him. This request shows you that you can't ask him for money even in a date.

5) Tell your parents or friends where you are going. There's no reason to lie about your new date from the beginning.

6) Ask your best friend to send you SMS. It's very useful, because you look more popular than you are. And even if your date is real catastrophe, then it's a good reason to get away. Just tell him that you're in a hurry, because you're needed at home.

7) Keep an eye contact. Play with your hairs gently, lean over his shoulder when you talk. These body language signals show that you are interested in him and it's a great way to show you that he likes you too.

8) If you want, you can kiss him after a date.

WHAT NOT TO DO ON A DATE

1) Don't talk only about yourself. A conversation is mutual thing. Let him tell you about himself too.

2) Don't go to noisy or too silent places. Even don't go to the same places where you can meet your friends. If the place are too noisy, you can't talk normally. If it too silent you will feel unconformable and even your friends will walk around, they may bite you with their opinions.

3) Don't wear uncomfortable clothes. You need to feel comfortable and don't think about your clothes or shoes at that moment. Wear what you like and feel free.

4) Don't check your phone all the time.

5) Don't talk about your ex all the time.

6) Don't behave the way you don't like.

7) Don't send him SMS 5 minutes after a date. Tell him that you liked your date, but don't ask him about the next date. Stay cool.

8) Don't act that you don't care about him. If you like him and if you want to meet him once again, don't be afraid to ask him out. Men don't know how to read your minds, so let him know about it.

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