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Dating: Why he's perfect for me

by Carrie Brandon

Created on: March 01, 2009   Last Updated: March 02, 2009

Love exists in not finding the perfect person, but seeing the imperfect person perfectly. You don't find love when you meet the "perfect" man , or woman , instead you find love when you find a person and you see them perfectly. You see their flaws and their imperfections and you accept them. You love them. You love their uniqueness and their imperfections make them all the more beautiful to you. And everyones opinion on what perfection is is different. What is perfect to one person may not be for another. And likewise what I consider to be imperfect of not enough for me may be completely perfect for another. It's individual. It's individual acceptance of another. Another who makes you feel complete.

He's perfect for me because he loves me for who I am. He sees the real me and he accepts who I am . He doesn't try to change me or mould me , instead he sees who I am and realises that who I am is the person I want to be. He doesn't make me feel compromised. He doesn't point out my failures and make me feel bad about them, instead he helps me acknowledge these downfalls and helps me move past them. He's perfect for me because he makes me smile. If he knows I've got a long day ahead, he'll either call or send me a sweet text with such affectionate to make me smile. He knows that I appreciate the little things like that and he remembers. He's perfect for me because he gives me sweet little kisses on the forehead when we're lying in bed together. He's perfect for me because he holds my hand in public and doesn't let go right away.

He's perfect for me because he tells me I look beautiful even when I don't feel it. He tells me I'm the most beautiful girl in the world when he sees me in m sweat pants with zero make up on. He's perfect for me because he treats me to dinner for no reason at all other than he wants to see me smile. He's perfect for me because he appreciates the little things I do for him. For his birthday I'm buying him a play-station three ( yes I'm dating a big games geek ) and I honestly don't mind spending that much money on him because I know he'll appreciate it. I know that he doesn't expect me to spend a fortune on him which in turn actually makes me quite like spoiling him. He's perfect for me because he listens to me. He sits quietly and doesn't speak , instead he lets me talk. Whether it be just a rant about a hard day or something really important , he just lets me say what I have to say. He makes me feel like my words are important.

He's perfect

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