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for relief - relief from the children's chores and household chores, to have a break of my own. But that is not the case. Cooking the meals, tidying up the house, waiting for the husband to be back, he never appreciate what you have done. Healthy and nutritious food was cooked and yet nothing seem to appeal to them. It's all in their mentality. The other side of the hill is always greener. They think you are incapable of anything. Only know how to do housework and nothing more. They claim to be tired after a day's of work. They claim to need to rest and not to help out even a single bit. They claim to say housework and looking after children is the job of a women.

After work, they devote themselves to computer. They chat on the internet - play games, online chat with the opposite sex, porn and so on. This is what we get for marriage. This is what we get as stay home mums who sacrificed our time and energy doing our best for the family. In the end, we lose out to any single women out there who speak to him on the internet. Love is developed on the net through time. The husband soon become frustrated and agitated at the cries of babies and children. He longed to leave the house, to be with the other ladies which they knew - friends or colleagues, it doesn't matter. Regardless of the two, he is having extramarital affairs, he gets to enjoy himself, but the poor wife is all stressed out, alone with the children and house.

I do not know whether in this world there are people who so deeply love their wife, and who would do anything for their wife. I do not know of any men who are willing to help the wife out to do housework after a day of work. There is no words of praise when you have done well. There is no words of encouraging. There are only criticism and the attitude of the wife is always wrong - the rest of the people is always right. There is no support from the husband. Where the wife supports the husband, the same thing also applies to the wife. We need our husband to be supportive and be standing at our side when things go wrong. But it is never the case. Words of sorrows and hearts of pains and grief, who can we share?

When we need to take a little break, who will cover up our duties? There is no time and no room for sickness. When you are ill and sick, you slow down, your work pile up. Stay home mum need to be dependent on the husband. No work no money. Life is stressful enough for the stay home mums, and where the husband is not cooperative, flirting around and having affairs, and abusive to the wife, it is even worse. We just can cry to ourselves quietly.

Though I said that stay home moms do not get the recognition they deserve, I do believe that there are nice guys around who really love their wives, and who are willing to share household chores, cooking, laundry and looking after the children as well.

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