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Beauty is completely in the eye of the beholder. I certainly don't want a partner that I do not find attractive but I think it would be too much pressure to deal with having the perfect one. Furthermore, if I can find someone that I can emotionally connect with and mentally be stimulated by, she will become perfect in my eyes. Various people think that there is such a thing as a perfect person.

This is not true and trying to live up to some unspoken standard will only create heartbreaking consequences when you finally discover that there is no such thing as being perfect for everyone. I can openly admit that I probably should lose 50 pounds. Being physically disabled, losing the weight will be difficult. If that means, in the eyes of some women that I am disqualified from being perfect than so be it. I wouldn't want the pressure of having to never make changes in order to maintain my perfect image. That pressure wouldn't allow me to enjoy my everyday life.

Sadly we have come to a place in society where physical appearance means significantly more than emotional depth or mental stimulation. This has happened because of the misconception that beautiful only comes in certain packages. I would rather have a partner that can make the admission to themselves that they are not perfect over someone who is consumed with a preoccupation toward public perception. It is a significant amount of stress always being concerned with what other people are thinking or what they might think. Physical beauty can fade with time.

Emotional and spiritual beauty only grows stronger as the years go on. I would rather have somebody who can deal with their own imperfections because it means that they are not trying to be something to please others. You must view yourself as beautiful before anyone can agree with the assessment. You must see your inner and outer beauty has the special qualities that will attract the right individual at the right time. Forcing a relationship forward as not a say much for its longevity prospects.

Confidence is the key to sexual appeal. If you believe that you are attractive than your energy will be higher. With higher energy impulses, you will better be able to attract someone that appreciates the things that create your individual style and attractive qualities. As you believe so shall you become. Your mind is the only limitation to connecting with a partner that will treat you with love, respect, and devotion. If you fail to see why you would be considered

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