by Kausalya Narasimhan

Created on: February 17, 2009   Last Updated: February 27, 2009

DEVELOPING YOURSELF

It is not a rule that one should take an oath only on the New Year day or on any other auspicious day. We must cultivate a habit that the day we take promise or oath is the auspicious day.

We must try to take promises whenever we come to a conclusion that it is right. It is good to do something immediate. First we must be sure that we have kept the previous promises. If we sure then we can go ahead. This is the first step way of developing our self.

The next is we must follow a table.

Analyzing our self is the prime thing. When we find leisure time we must down and analyze our self. In this matter we must be true to our self. While analyze we must do the following thing:-

If we feel uneasy in front of others go to a room and sit alone.

The important thing is we must calm.

It is better to avoid noisy places.

Thoroughly analyze yourself.

Take a paper and make two columns.

On the top of the first column make the heading as "MY STRENGTHS".

On the top of the second column make the heading as "WEAKNESS".

Write down all your weakness and strengths.

Don't panic if the weakness list goes long.

Don't show the list to the one who never encourage your strengths.

It is better if don't show the list to anyone.

We must be sure that which is strength and which is our weakness.

After writing the list read it once again. Then think the way to convert your weakness to strengths. For this we have to rake oaths. It is not necessary that all of a sudden we must convert all our weakness to strengths.

Some oaths and promises are difficult to follow. But it will be easier as the days pass on.

Strike out the one which is no longer your weakness from the list. Add the strengths if you find it. It is very important to keep the list safe. The weaknesses cannot be corrected within a day. It may take days or months. It is necessary as soon as we have corrected it we must strike out them from the list.

Do in the same way till you find that you have corrected your weakness. It is possible for everyone to have the weakness column empty in the start. But it is possible to have that empty at the end of this process. We must have the confidence that we can do it. The confidence and our thought are very important.

"IF YOU THINK YOU CAN, YOU DEFINITELY CAN;

IF YOU THINK YOU CANNOT, YOU CERTAINELY CANNOT."

We must always remember two things:-

"THE WORD IMPOSSIBLE ITSELF SAYS I'M POSSIBLE."

"THE WORD IMPOSSIBLE IS NOT EVEN IN THE DICTIONARY OF FOOLS."

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