by Carona Micheal Davis

Created on: February 11, 2009

Being that woman are nurturers, givers, wives, counselors, cooks and nannies among other things one must be prepared to respond to her in a pleasing manner. In order to do this you must be attentive to her wants and needs even if you cannot process what she is saying or how she is feeling just being there for her and listening means more than you know.

The gentlest kiss or the biggest hug can get her through a rough day at work or a rough night with the kids. As hard as it may be allow her to see a softer side of you. This will let her know that you are trying to communicate with her on the same level and that she is worth the effort. Being gentle, a compliment about her inner and physical self will no doubt make her feel like a Queen and you her King. If you can take basic steps to make her happy then she will take many steps doing the same for you. Woman tend to return kindness ten fold whether to her spouse, lover or friend. It is in her nature to be kind and generous but in order for a man to make this trait blossom he must water this flower by talking to her, involving her in decisions that concern the both of you, cooking for her even if you can't cook she will see the effort that you are trying to put in and probably try to stop you (smile).

Woman are sometimes portrayed as selfish, money hungry, bitter creatures and this is only because they are misunderstood and or they were not taken care of emotionally during their life. Emotion is a key word because an emotionally stable woman is a happy woman. The question is how do we keep a woman emotionally happy? The top five ways to make your woman emotionally happy is:

1) Support - Support in the good times and the rough times even if you do not agree with her.

2) Communicate - Let her know that you are listening to what she is saying and be honest about your feelings.

3) Assist - Help out with the children, cooking and cleaning. This is a big plus for woman with children. By doing this you will have a friend for life

4) Love - Don't be afraid to tell her that you love her. It is not a sign of weakness. If anything it will show her that you don't mind expressing yourself which will make her glow inside and out.

5) Spoil Her - Now, when men usually hear the word spoil in reference to a woman they usually relate this to giving her jewelry, taking her out, doing whatever she wants. This is far from the truth. You can spoil your woman without spending a dime. For instance, if you get home from work before her run a bubble bath for her, help her prepare for work just as she would do for you, get her slippers and remover her shoes while giving her tired toes a couple of good rubs then place her slippers on her feet. Help her undress after work and not for the reasons you think. Tell her you want to help her get comfortable.

Making the effort is the most important key to pleasing your woman and if you do it right you will have a best friend, confidant and partner for life.

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