by 0007

Created on: February 09, 2009   Last Updated: October 23, 2009

Definition of Happiness

My Definition of being happy in life is very simple. It's not all about money like so many people believe it is. The more money you have the happier you are not at all for us. Of course we like to have enough to where we do not want to rob nor too much were we are getting greedy, there is a happy medium. I think one big thing to having happiness, is to work doing something you like or love doing, if you wake up every morning hating to go to work because you hate it, it makes for a bad day all day, and that is a lot of your time to be unhappy. And, during the day if I am able to treat people well, I am happier than if I was an ass all day long.

I have found that if I am OK at home, things are well with my wife, and we are getting along being best friends; loving one another the way we need to, things are so much better in life having a good relationship with one another. I thought that this would never happen, I had plenty of really rotten relationships' but until I really got serious and started to look the right way it never happened, all were rotten ones that ended really hurting me in one way or another. Learning the hard way this is the way I learn, I seem to learn not any other way.
I do learn maybe not as fast as some, but I learn. Going through the day it is hard not to feed in to someone that gives you a hard time, like in the store or Driving all the time this seems to happen, someone cuts you off, or almost hits you, and all day you think about it. It's hard to let things go, but when I do the rest of the day is so much better. I am learning to do this more and more and I have much more peace through the day. It seems like as soon as you let one thing go, along comes another; it's a life longs process to learn to let things go. I am not completely an expert at it, but more and more I do it the easier it gets.
And if I can make it through the day with all this going on, my wife and I love to spend time together serious time together, it makes life Wonderful. We keep all things Honest with one another, if you cannot be honest with your wife you really have nothing worthwhile, I believe she is my best friend and Partner in life. Things are not always perfect and if things get out of control and we have a fight, I do my best before we go to bed to work things out! I like a peaceful life nothing crazy partying all the time, getting in trouble. Those days are over and we are so much better for it. We love a Peaceful. Happy and Wonderful warm Home. Home is Home

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