by Mumbly Joe

Created on: February 07, 2009   Last Updated: February 19, 2009

Relationships are an interesting thing. Most of the time it seems that you are in one that is less than satisfactory or you are in the pursuit of one that is. Is anyone happy with the relationship that they are in. The answer is that there are relationships that are at the pinnacle of perfection. The only way that you will experience this is when you can look deep inside of yourself and see what it is that you truly desire.

What is it that makes these relationships so much better than the one you are in? Have you met the person that makes your heart flutter everytime you aproach them. If you haven't, you are not alone. You might be with the most beautiful woman that you have ever met, but you just don't feel the attraction, what is ring? What if you are in a perfect relationship but you just don't realize it?

There is a simple rule that exist in the universe. You will never be able to be happy with someone else until you are happy with your self. The reality is that you might in fact have a wonderful relationship but the only thing spoiling it is you. How do you begin to know yourself? What do you expect of the other person?

What will make you happy? Do you even know what it is that will make you happy? You won't be happy until you realize what it is that will make you happy. If you are not happy with yourself, you will never be able to be happy with anyone else.

The first step in the ultimate personal growth is when you can spend time with yourself in silence and just enjoy the experience. The idea of being with yourself in complete silence is meditation. When you can see yourself in silens, you can experience someone else.

To begin to know the true part of our selves is that we must become quiet. How do we become quiet? We need to understand the basic concept of meditation. The universe will speak to us. When you can be silent and alow yourself to hear the sounds of the universe there will be great insights revealed.

Have you ever met someone who cannot stand to be alone? You don't have to be with someone every second. Sometimes we need to remove ourselves from ordinary life to allow ourselves to fully appreciate the human condition. If you are terrified to be alone with yourself, then you have issues that need to be dealt with.

When we mediate, we become quiet and silence ourselves. This can sometimes be much more difficult than it seems. Meditation conects us with a reality that is not external. Sometimes it can be very difficult to become quiet and to

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