by Tina Shelnutt

Created on: February 06, 2009   Last Updated: February 21, 2009

I've had thirty-four years to come up with something special for my man on Valentine's Day, Anniversaries and just appreciation day. Not all of my plans have been a great success. I can however, give you a few of the things I have done that 'Wowed' his every emotion and desire. When I plan something now, he gets excited just thinking about it. The anticipation revs him up as his imagination and curiosity lead him to a place of contentment and peace.

You can spend very little or go all out, either way the goal is accomplished. Everyone loves to be pampered, aroused and experience a night of complete self-indulgence. You will take him to a place which separates him from the reality and grind of every day life.

Valentine's Day at home can be a bit tricky if you have children or people who like to stop by unannounced. Choose your fun time wisely and cross your fingers that no one will pop in.

You will need: Dinner or snacks. I like to order his favorite meal from a restaurant and pick it up before he gets home. If money is too tight, I will prepare the meal in advance, allowing for quick heating in the microwave. Drinks have your choice of beverages on ice in the bedroom. Pick up a bottle of KY heating gel, available at any department store or drug store. Other items to pick up or gather: Pick up a few fudgesicles or popsicles, body lotion, scented candles, CD/Radio player, Play toys, video, camera or movie camera (if appropriate); use your imagination and just go for it.

Have everything in place and ready to go before he gets home. When he first comes in the door hand him his favorite drink and give him a quick kiss. Have him get into something more comfortable (sweat pants, shorts, or birthday suit). While he is busy changing, take the opportunity to quickly light the candles or put out the food, turn on the music, whatever needs to be done at the last minute. Have your nightie on under your clothes if possible or excuse yourself to change. Remember, men see us in a different light, than we see ourselves. Imperfections do not impair their ability to see a desirable woman in front of them. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone and the rewards will be worth it.

After you are more comfortable, give him a huge hug and kiss him on the cheek. Take him by the hand and lead him to the meal you have for him. Having you sitting there in your nighttime will be a turn-on for him. Make light talk throughout dinner (nothing serious). After your meal is done you will lead

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