by Jennifer Wagner

Created on: February 04, 2009

The very best gift you can give your man for Valentine's Day will not be found in a store. Of course, you can spend money on something that he'll thank you for, but is it something he really wants or needs? Most likely not. So why spend the money? The absolute best thing you can do for the man in your life is pamper him. I guarantee that he will enjoy it and appreciate the time you spend doing it. You can't put a price on intimate time alone. And the benefits will be something you can both enjoy!

The idea behind pampering and spoiling your man, is that it will make him feel special. If only for one day, treat him like a king. After years of wasting money on candy, silk boxers, and other silly gifts, I have learned that most men just want to have attention paid to them. Start out by filling the tub with warm, bubbly water. YES! Men like bubble baths too, especially if you are the one bathing him. This doesn't have to be a sexual thing, however, he probably would like to see you dressed up in something pretty. Slide on your favorite negligee or teddy, and let him take in your beauty as you wash his back, shampoo his hair, and rub his feet. Dim the lights and light candles too! The mood should be ultimately relaxing.

After his bath, blow dry his hair. If his body is a little hairy, blow dry that too. Use your hands and fingers to dry the hair on his body, gently rubbing as the blow dryer warms his skin. You will be surprised at the effect it will have on him. Softly comb or brush his hair as you blow dry it. You'll need to get in close to do this, and the gentle caress of your body against him will make it a sensual experience.

An erotic massage can be the hi-light of the evening. Have some soft music playing, and allow just enough light in the room so that you can see the silhouette of each other. You don't have to spend a lot of money on massage oil or lotion, just use something that you have that smells nice. Generously apply the oil or lotion to his back, and slowly work it in. Don't rush. Enjoy the time together, and don't allow him to rub you in return. This is YOUR gift to HIM.

Most likely, the massage and intimate time together will put you both in the mood for romance. This is where you get to receive some of the benefit of your hard work. Enjoy it! You deserve it. Once he's received the gift of being spoiled and pampered, it will probably be what he requests for Valentine's Day every year. When he gets together with his friends, and they discuss what they received for Valentine's Day, your gift will be the one that will stand out from the others.

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