by Samantha Gardner

Created on: February 03, 2009

Has a man every made you use your hand as a fan or bite your lip? If the answer is yes than you have encountered a creature called a "sexy man". We have all heard the saying "he is the full package" repeatedly. Men view us as sex objects but there are females who do the same when it comes to gentlemen.

A sexy man comes in all weights, sizes, and races. Its not exactly sexy when a man acts more feminine than yourself. If he is using Chanel moisturizer or Chi hair products that is a major red flag. There isnt a specific spokes model for what a sexy man looks like exactly. It is up to you to decide who is sexy and what defines them as being sexy.

Oh, how we take the simple things for granted in life. If a man can lift you up and swing you around that is sexy. A man who presents himself well to the world by wearing nice clothing. A man who sounds like a man on the phone is a huge benefit because he doesn't have a squeaky puberty sounding voice. When a man can own up to his mistakes and just be up front with you about everything.

A man who enjoys cooking for you once a week or whenever he feels like it. If you have children is he sweet and caring around them? I'm sure all you mom's want a guy like that in your child's life for many reasons. A sexy man can make you laugh and isn't afraid to be a clown around you. He is comfortable in his own skin and getting under yours.

I envision this grizzly man who is strong phsyically and mentally. Nothing is sexier than a little scruff on a mans face. Now strong hands and a big heart are fantastic qualities. These hands caress your body while keeping you close to him. These hands shield you from the world and all the chaos going on around you. These hands touch your body and connect you to your man even more. These hands show you how much your man loves, wants, and needs you.

A man who is independent and isn't a mommy's boy anymore is sexy because he can make it on his own. He is confident in himself and the job that he has to do. He wears a nice suit during the day and at nighttime that suit comes off of him. He is assertive when he talks to you but knows how to turn on the charm to drive you crazy. A man who is protective of his girlfriend or his wife when it comes to other men. When you are in public and he will randomly slap your behind or wrap his arms around you. He isn't afraid to show the world this is his girl!

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