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The process of divorce can be so hard on young children. No matter how hard we try to shelter them from what is going on, they always seem to know that something isn't right and begin to feel insecure about their lives.

They begin to worry about what will become of their family as they know it. They even begin to worry about what will become of them. Will they be separated from one of their parents and not see them again? This seems like a drastic thought but children have no idea, when in the stressful spot of being "in the middle", what the reality might be. Children have imaginations and sometimes they run wild. It is so important to be upfront with your children and let them know that both parents will always be there for them. Let them know that it is alright to ask questions and that no question is taboo.

Children, during this time, need the support of other family members, church clergy, teachers and councelors at school. Many people don't know it but your child's school has councelors, available to them whenever they just need to talk. Sometimes talking to an outsider will allow your child the freedom of feeling like they can talk about things and vent, so to speak about things that they are not ready to talk to you about. Keep the channel of communication open with your child's school teachers and councelors, as they can be good ears and eyes into how your child is dealing with things.

Tell your children everyday that you love them and how much they mean to you. You might think they should already know it but really, they need to hear it. They need all the reassurance that you can give. Take the time to give them that extra hug, it will do you both good!

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