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Do you ever sense something is just not right, and later find your intuition was accurate? Well, if you suspect that your husband is cheating, your intuition may give you some initial warnings.

Additionally, there are signs you can look for to validate your fears. This article outlines some signs that your husband has a cheating heart.

* He is not accessible by mobile phone.

In today's world, more than ever, people are easy to reach. As a wife, you should be able to get a hold of your husband on his cell phone with relative ease.

If your husband is not reachable on his cell phone on a frequent basis, that is a red flag. Of course, this does not mean you should expect him to answer when he is in busy airports or at the office in meetings.

However, if he does not answer at other times, there could be a problem there. Someone can always take a call, even for a minute or two, on a pretty regular basis. Do not fall for excuses if your husband rarely answers his cell phone.

* His mobile phone goes straight to voice mail.

Another red flag is when your husband has his phone going straight to voice mail. Again, you must use common sense as sometimes it is reasonable for someone to turn off their phone. However, if it is happening all of the time, then it could mean your husband is in the company of another woman.

* He does not answer his mobile phone.

Have you noticed lately that your husband is not taking certain calls on his mobile when you are around? Does he quickly turn the ringer off after glancing at the caller ID? If so, he could be avoiding a call from the other woman.

* He changes the computer screen when you walk into a room.

If your husband is spending a lot of time on his computer at night, he may be working. However, he may also be chatting online with another woman.

The best way to get a sense of what is going on is to randomly pop into the area where he is working. If he quickly changes whatever is on the computer screen, then he may be trying to hide something.

* He is not coming home until late at night.

This warning sign is one of the most obvious, but you would be amazed at how many women fall for it? Men who come home really late from the office may have honestly worked late.

However, if it happens frequently, they may be spending time with a lover in the evenings. Keep in mind that with today's technology, your husband should be able to do a lot of his office work at home. Staying late at the office is becoming a thing of the past.

* He is not interested in intimacy.

Clearly, if your husband has lost a desire for intimacy with you, something may be wrong. While it is not necessarily another woman, it could be.

* He has an increased number of weekend business trips.

Some jobs require people to be on the road a lot. However, be aware of your husband's business travel patterns. Has he suddenly started having more weekend business trips? If so, is providing you with his itinerary information so you easily know how to keep tabs on him?

In conclusion, these are a few of the signs that your husband may be cheating on you. Keep in mind that in and of themselves, some of these things may not mean anything.

However, if your intuition tells you something is wrong and some of these things are happening, it is smart to dig a bit deeper if possible to make sure your concerns are not valid.

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