by Christy Tanner

Created on: January 30, 2009

When deciding on a babysitter, many parents have a list of options to call, usually with their favorite being at the top of the list. For many, this go-to babysitter is a grandparent, aunt, uncle, or cousin. For others, it is preferable to enlist the services of a non-relative for an evening out. Deciding upon the best person to watch your children while you are out is a personal choice that can be influenced by many factors. While there are many positive reasons to ask a relative to babysit, there can also be some detractors that may influence your decision.

The Upside

The first time you leave your infant in the care of another person can be difficult. You may be familiar with your neighbor's 17 year old daughter, Kaitlyn, and you know that she is a very capable and bright young lady that has been babysitting your friend's children successfully for a few years. However, it can be easy to let doubts creep into your particularly sensitive new-parent mind. Asking your parent or sibling to babysit on your first venture away from home sans baby may placate some of the fears that you have. This can also be seen as a vast compliment to the person you trust with this honor and bonus points with the family are very valuable.

Beyond the peace of mind that comes with having a family member babysitting your child, is the monetary value. Hiring a sitter can cost anywhere from $6 - $15 dollars an hour, with the most experienced babysitters being near the higher end of the spectrum. Often, Grandma or Aunt Shelley's services come with the most desirable price tag: free. An evening of dinner and a movie with your spouse has become increasingly expensive and being able to save money on a babysitter can be a relief to your wallet.

An added benefit to asking a relative to babysit is the increased bond your children are able to develop with their family member. The alone time they spend together can create some special memories for years to come.

The Downside

While you may not be expected to pay your mother, sister, brother, or cousin for babysitting your charges, "free" doesn't always mean free. Your sister may think that because she is helping you by watching your children she is entitled to lecture you on your potty training techniques. Your mother may take the free range of your home to mean she can rearrange your kitchen to the "way it should be." The benefit to paying someone to watch your children is the ability to avoid some of your family member's more annoying habits.

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