by Louis Burgos

Created on: January 28, 2009

Have you ever tried talking to someone during a gathering, and talk about the same thing to two different women, and have one treat you like a friend, and the other become attracted to you? Well, believe it or not, but, the way you move your body in every which way and the way you talk are huge factors in which way the other person will be attracted to you. In a one on one conversation, there are body movements and simple speaking gestures that will make you fall into the inescapable friend zone, and factors that will actually get a woman to hold your hand, so to speak, if used correctly. The following are list of friend factors, and actual date factors, that will make it or break it when you talk to a woman.

The Friend Factors:

-Facing the other person directly

-Leaning in toward the woman alot, or pecking.

-Moving too closely

-Slouching

-Using exagerated hand gestures

-Moving your body in extreme ways

-Sounding over enthusiastic

-Saying polite things, such as "excuse me" and "sorry" excessively

-Talking about Religion and Politics (Not always so, but its a thin line to walk on.)

-Talking too much about the same thing if she keeps trying to change the subject

-Cursing

The Actual Date Factors:

-Tilted slightly sideways, as if indicating you're going somewhere soon

-Talking with without mumbling

-Always clearly stating your feelings

-Genuinely moving in a relaxed and happy way

-Having chin slightly upwards

-Keeping hands at pockets but not inside them

-Leaning outwards when the girl is saying something but not extremely so that she leans in or pulls you in to say something to you

-Talking about really genuinely fun times you had (Not, how much you got drunk last night)

-In a non-arrogant way, mentioning your accomplishments.

-Talking about a unique trait that only she has

-Jokingly make fun of her, but not impolitely

-Saying things she just said in a different way

-Sort of doing the same body movements she does

-Not arguing and being understanding

These factors are very accurate and tend to work 95 percent of the time. The only way they wouldn't work is if you don't show confidence in yourself or if you lie a lot. Women tend to detect lying immediately when men are trying to pick them up. Most of all, look and feel the best you can when picking up women, so that your body language reflects how confident you feel.

Just consider these factors and they will bring you fruition. It is all up to you and your confidence whether you want them to work or not

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