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The key to having anyone, including a man, love you or fall in love with you, is to be yourself. You do not have to be the sexiest woman on Earth, or the best cook, or the greatest lover. There is no necessity to laugh at a man's jokes every time, especially if you have no clue to what the punchline refers.

If you like a person, let him know. It does not require writing gooey letters, flowery language or having to be everywhere he goes. If you relax, go about your own business, and enjoy being with him when he is there, unless he is blind and deaf, he will know you are his friend. Friendship can and should be the precursor to love. People who are compatable in the sex department get divorced all the time because they never took the time to know each other without lust being a third party in the relationship.

Cooking can be fun, but if it isn't fun for you, why should you go all out trying to prove it is? Do you think once you marry the fellow, you will be honest and tell him the kitchen isn't your forte? The same goes for keeping your home immaculate when he is around, but living like a slob when he is away. After marriage, he will figure out housekeeping is not high on your To Do List either. You, the love of his life, will now have the tag of being deceitful or lying to your new spouse.

Should you prefer being a tomboy, but decide you have to dress sexy to get a man's attention, your plan may backfire. Will he see you or your cleavage? Too often women attempting to be sexy come off as trashy. Pushing your breasts high enough to rest your chin or wearing a skirt so short bending over is akin to mooning does little more than focus attention on sex. Your personality, whether you are kind, loving, or oan verall nice person is forgotten. The man may fall in 'lust' but seldom does such behavior arrive at 'love.'

If you are smart, but the man you want is offended or frightened by it, back away. If he fears your success, it is because he is a man with little comfidence in himself. Should you be the unfortunate who marries him, you will either spend your life convincing him you are dumb or he is smart. Both options leave a lot to be desired. His confidence will grow directly in proportion to the amount you lose unless prior to marriage he makes it clear he wants both of you to succeed.

There are a couple of things to change forever to make or help a man love you. If you constantly sulk and pout - stop it! Not only is it unbecoming, it gets dreadfully boring in short order. If you have never kept yourself neat and clean and your hair washed, try it. You will feel and look better and the opposite sex may decide you are worth a second look.

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