Don't yell at your children. When you want to be firm and taken seriously, just use a firm and serious tone with them, also explaining kindly your reasons for refuting their actions. This will allow you the discipline needed with out belittling the child. As well, praise the children often for good deeds and behavior. Show them themselves. Let children know who they are. Say things that are encouraging to them and build a positive ego. Such as, you are so intelligent, you are very beautiful, you know I love you very much, and things of the like. Please don't mistake these tips. Be sure you don't raise the child to compare themselves to other children. Like, so and so doesn't do this or that(that lowers any confidence that was already established). Let your child know they are great no matter what. Correct them when necessary and approach with kindness. If your child is belittled at home, they won't have a chance against the world. Let them be them, just protect and guide them. You should always want to be accepting and polite to YOUR children. This is your responsibility.

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