by Leslie Conner

Created on: January 20, 2009

Dear President Obama:

Today has not only been an historical day for our nation, but a life-altering experience for you. You've carried yourself with grace throughout the campaign process and I'm convinced that you will proceed through your first term as President with the same dignified poise. I think I speak on behalf of the majority of the country when I say: You couldn't have come along at a better time.

Being the first African American President has also placed you in the spotlight, as an example of what we, as a nation, have become and overcome. There are expectations to be sure. We see a once great country now burdened with unfathomable debt, tumbling uncontrollably into an economic depression and flailing aimlessly in a winless war. We look to you now to bring us hope for the future. For a great leader is not someone who instills fear in his followers, who demands without conciliatory effort, or who acts without considering the consequences. A great leader inspires everyone around him to be great also. And, simple tasks can then become accomplishments of epic proportions. I believe you are an inspirational leader and we are excited to travel this journey with you.

And, although you alone must make decisions that I could never imagine having to make, I do have some advice that I hope will be taken with the spirit in which it was intended:

1. Stay true to who you are. You were elected to the highest office in the land because of your ideals, beliefs, and the purity of your intentions. You have a peace and spirit in you that are palpable and contagious. Don't let the corruption of Washington get in the way of what you want to accomplish for yourself and this country.

2. Choose Peace. End the unnecessary conflicts that your predecessors initiated. War is not a solution to any problem. You can be a peaceful President who seeks to resolve conflicts in more productive ways.

3. Never lose sight of your vision. You've come into office at one of the most difficult times in our history. It will be a rocky road and most of it will be uphill. But, you have to remain the constant source of inspiration for this nation.

4. Remember your daughters. They are your reason for being a great man. It doesn't matter what anyone will say about you. Every detail of your actions during your time as President will be scrutinized, not only by the media, but by your daughters as well. Be the man that you want them to see.

5. Own your successes and failures. We know that you have many advisors and experts at your disposal. But, ultimately, every decision is yours to make. You can take credit for your successes, but you must also own up to your mistakes.

So, now you must get to work. After the parades, the balls and celebration, the time has come for you to lead our nation. I have faith in you and us. Be safe and, above all else, make us proud to be Americans.

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