by Rosannie Murillo

Created on: January 18, 2009

Wow, increasing our guy "Q"I've been trying to do that for as long as I can remember, mostly since I became a teenager. But I'm guessing that I am not the only one who's been trying to do that right? Most of us women in many situations would like to know more of the opposite sex and save ourselves plenty of awkward, unpleasant and downright embarrassing situations. And the thing that bothers me the most is when we think we have them finally figured out for once, they do something else completely different that throws us out of the game once again. Annoying isn't it? Well let's take a look here to see if we can receive some much needed help.

What is the main thing every person does in order to get to know somebody else? Spend time with them, right? Well that's exactly what every woman should do if she wants to increase her knowledge of the opposite sex; simple, huh? By sharing time together, exchanging ideas, learning and most of all communicating with guys, we can achieve a pretty clear idea of what is inside a guy's mind.

In my personal case, I tend to be more around men than women, ever since I was in high school I used to have more guy friends than girlfriends, and that is why I find it easier to communicate with them and advice other women to do the same. Oh! and here's a little inside hint when communicating with the male species; I have found that most men love to talk about cars, sports, music, employment and of course, themselves! But, be cautious when circling around subjects such as sex, money and ex's as this may sound too compromising for many men at the beginning of a conversation.

Finding things in common with the opposite sex is an excellent way to increase our gay "Q" mainly because by finding things you both like will make the guy feel comfortable with you and will open up to you towards other types of conversations that can give you insight into what he really feels and thinks towards many matters.

Another helpful way to get to know the opposite sex and increase our personal knowledge is to spend time where we can find them being, well, themselves. This could be at their school or university, their workplace, the gym or even the nearby sports bar. These types of places motivate men to interact with each other and their friends, giving us an idea of how they normally behave when they feel they don't have to impress a girl somehow.

I find that these tips are the most important I could give any woman wanting to increase her guy "Q". Surround yourself in a guy's typical hangouts, make a few guy friends and find things in common with them. Before long you'll find yourself knowing more about the opposite sex than you ever thought! Good luck!

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