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life. If your personality is changing to accommodate another person, they are probably not the one for you. Move on and find someone who will love you for who you really are.

7)You have no goals or dreams any more- We all need to have a dream, it's what keeps us going when times get tough. If you can't remember your dreams and hopes, you are losing one of the most important parts of yourself and the future will begin to look bleak.

8)Abuse- Any form of abuse is reason to leave right now. If a person hasn't become abusive yet but is showing signs that they will such as very dominant behavior, consider yourself lucky and leave before your luck runs out.

9)Kids are being affected negatively-Whether you have kids together or separately from prior marriages, they deserve to live in a stable and loving home. This is where children will thrive. They will not do well if they are living in a tense and unhappy environment. These are the innocent people in the relationship, so if they are suffering, there is no excuse for staying in the relationship.

10)You don't like yourself-If you are starting to feel poorly about yourself, or if you have for a while, there is something wrong. It may not be the other person, but regardless, you need to take some time to yourself and heal whatever is hurting.

There are times that are hard to get through in relationships, but if you are experiencing one or more of the above issues, it is quite possibly time to take your leave. There are times that there is nothing left to do but go your own way and do what's best for you. Those times are when "enough is really enough"!

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