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you've overlooked.

9. ASK them WHAT THEY WANT! The direct frontal approach can be extremely un-nerving, and very effective.

10. Never lose your cool; you'll lose everything!

11. Never let how you really feel show on your face.

12. Once you've made your point(s), STOP TALKING! And no matter how long the silence is, don't be the first one to speak. The first one who speaks has already lost! (If there's food around, now is the time to put something in your mouth!)

13. Be gracious whether you win or lose! This is so important. How you do either will speak volumes of you as a person, a competitor, and as someone people may want to do business with in the future. It will establish a reputation for you that will be either positive or negative. And even if you don't land the big game this time, according to how you played the game, the big game with have respect for you, and they will remember you believe it or not- which will come in handy in the future.

14. Winning what you want out of a negotiation should be a legitimate "best practice" to improve something somewhere, whether it's a good or service; working conditions, or method of delivery. You should keep in mind that "what goes around, comes around", so even though you may win today, you may be tomorrow's loser.

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