by Nicole Payne

Created on: December 23, 2008

Of course only a women would tell a man that you could never say I love you too much. THink of it this way gifts are never ending. Let me explain what I mean. Everyone or almost every person gets a least one gift a year. Would you say that getting only one gift a year would be enough? What if it was one pair of socks? Would one pair of socks last you for a whole year? No I don't think so ( even though my teenage boy might disagree with me). We need to change our socks every day. Hopeful you do, but who knows you could be like my boy.

Another way to relate to the question of verbalizing I love you to much is to look at a women's closet. How many shoes does she have? If she only has one pair say I love you only once but if there is more than one pair of shoes it means that she needs to hear I love you several times a day if not more. You are like her favorite pair of shoes that she wears all the time. She needs to accessories those shoes with a dress. The dress she wears are the words of I love you. If you don't dress her with those words she will be naked and you don't want others to try and dress her with their words. That would be bad because she would live in their closet and not yours. (This has not been prov-en by psychology but it will be soon).

Women need to hear I love you all the time. We need to be reaffirmed. We need to know you love us. Let me emphasis my point we need to hear it all the time or we will question it. I can't explain why but that is the way that we are made. I know it is hard for guys to understand. My suggestion is not to try and figure it out but to do it. If you still have problems with the idea of communicating I love you to much to women talk to God and see if He change us. If God does not answer yes to the changing of women there is a book that can help you it will explain what we want. This book, For Men Only surveyed women on-line to see what we wanted. The first clue is to say I love you a lot.

Guys need just the opposite. They don't need to hear that we love them but are proud of them. Men need to feel trusted and that we look up to them. Men need to know that we appreciate the job they do. They need to feel like they do a good job. A guy would rather hear that then I love you any day.

I know that I really didn't need to explain the male side of view but I wanted to clarify the question. Yes it is good to say I love you a lot to women but not to men. Men need something different. So may be when asking questions there should be a may be or some of the time yes and other times no.

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