by Leigh Goessl

Created on: December 20, 2008   Last Updated: January 06, 2012

If you have ever been in a long-distance relationship, you already know many of the hurdles you need to overcome in order to make your relationship succeed. A relationship which has a span of miles between two mates is not always the easiest situation to cope with. If you are thinking about entering a long-distance relationship, it is a good idea to try and understand exactly what challenges you'll be facing.

While every relationship has its challenges, the ones associated with distance are more unique. Despite the challenges, it is possible to maintain a strong, healthy and happy long distance relationship. The trick to making it last is to focus on the positives, and find ways to reduce the negatives.

Here are a few ideas of the kinds of adjustments you can make to help nurture your relationship, and some things to keep in mind during those times you are concerned about handling your long distance relationship:

*Get a good long distance plan

With cell phones this is easier to do than in years past, but if you are limited on cellular minutes it is a good idea to explore what other long distance phone call plans you can invest in. This way, you and your love can communicate more frequently. If you and your partner are able to spend time on the telephone chatting, this will help erase some of the feelings associated with the physical separation which exists.

Long distance calls can get pricey, but fortunately with new technology and competition between carriers, it is much easier to find a good plan these days. Affordability isn't the huge barrier it once was in long distance communication, and this is a plus for the long-distance relationship.

*Take advantage of technology

Instant messages can add a level of closeness because of the ability to have simultaneous reactions and conversations being exchanged instantaneously. You don't have to wait for your love to get your e-mail and respond if you both have access to the same messenger application.

Webcams are another way you and your love can connect and "see" one another in real time as you talk. While it is not the same thing as spending time together, it is the one of the next best things.

*Trust and solid communication

For the long distance relationship to survive, there needs to be a strong level of trust and ability to communicate with one another. If you find yourself constantly wondering what your mate is doing, or if he/she is cheating, then your relationship can suffer damage and be doomed in the long

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